Thursday, 22 March 2012

blog currently under maintenence, come back another time :)

yours sincerely, franfranfranny

Day 16 of LOVE

"How can you love when you hate?"

recently, this question keep popping in my mind.

ain't you agree with me that it's not easy to be kind and show love towards the person you dislike?

well, let's ponder on this sentence. "When you dislike someone, there will be another someone out there who dislike you as well. But you have to know what is right and do it right."

Hatred is suffering because you'll constantly in a negative mood whenever you think of that someone.

Love irrationally and forgive without reason.

start love today by loving irrationally =)

yours sincerely, franfranfranny

Tuesday, 13 March 2012

Day 15 of LOVE

went church service last weekend and the speaker of the night was Rev Kevin Loo. if you have not heard about him before, I strongly encourage you to get his sermon CD and listen to his teaching and sharing. although I've been listening him to preach a lot of times on different topics, I still looking forward for his sermon if I know he's the speaker of the week. he's just naturally a good speaker and will keep you awake if you pay attention to what he says.


so the topic was 'experience CHCKL'. it was basically all about act of love and kindness towards others especially to the new comer at CIty Harvest Church. Rev Kevin pointed out that we should not just 'try' to act kind towards new comer when we try to impress them. instead, we should put in practice in our daily life. no matter at church, university or college, work place and even shopping malls, we ought to constantly show care and kindness to the people around us.


for example, if someone ask you for direction, why not say this: "I know where is that place, but I think it will be better if could lead you the way to there." I totally love this point. If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles. - Matthew 5:41


that's really a sweet and nice act of love isn't it? the next time people ask for help, do more than expected.


start love today by giving the best experience to others :)





yours sincerely, franfranfranny

Thursday, 8 March 2012

Day 14 of LOVE

class is tiring. Wednesday I'm having class from 8am to 4.30pm including 1 kitchen class. I'm totally worn out after whole day of class.


I was waiting friends after class so that we could go home together. while I was sitting and resting, there's an Indian lady approached me saying that she wants to borrow my mobile phone to make calls. perhaps I've listen to too many story of people borrowing their phones others and that person just snatch it away, when the Indian lady asked me about it, my alertness level was 100% that time. no joke.


so me being the too alert/kia-si girl, refuse to lend my phone to her. instead, I gave her some coins so that she could make phone calls through public phone. call me kia-si or whatever you want.


however, for me, girls gotta learn to protect yourself no matter physically, in a relationship or even socially. this act of mine might not seem pleasing in everyone's eyes as some might think that it's not a big deal to lend others a phone. yes, it's true it is not a big deal to lend a phone to others. but perhaps that's not a right moment or right person.


start love today by learning to be wise in different situation.






yours sincerely, franfranfranny

Tuesday, 6 March 2012

Day 13 of LOVE

it's been about 3 weeks since I last updated about my love project. felt so sorry and bad because I'm not keeping to my own promises.

March is a busy month for me. tons of assignment, presentation and finals for my term 3.

last weekend Sheena came to KL for a short holiday trip and we manage to meet up. being able to spend time with her really makes me happy. missing my KK peeps badly.

so we actually spent 2 full day together going around malls and brought her to visit City Harvest Church. we also get to talk something heart to heart as she came over my place to stay over. I just love spending time with loves one.

I guess the good thing of studying at West Malaysia is that sometimes you can still meet up KK friends as quite a number of them always travel to the west and we're able to meet up.

start love today by treating others with a sincere heart :)



yours sincerely, franfranfranny

Friday, 17 February 2012

Day 12 of LOVE

been neglected my blog for about a week.

I'm just too lazy to update every single day. but I promise to update it as often as I can.

so on my day 12, I remember I was all alone at home. did not go anywhere nor do anything. not even eating a proper meal.

the only thing I did is chatting on skype with Walter. this dude is really sweet and caring. he's the first one who gave me a birthday gift on my big 19. an original autograph of Jay Chou all the way from Taiwan! appreciate and love it very much!

we used to chat on skype quite often when he's at Taiwan, but not when he's at KK. I suppose we will get back to this routine again as he's back to Taiwan now.

conversation with him is really different from what I normally talk to my other guy's friend. we just know each other too well. 5 years of friendship and still growing.

a lot of times we depends on friends a lot and we show them our true self naturally. I guess that's what real friends are. they are the one who will see all your best and worst moments.

start love today by appreciating real friends :)



yours sincerely, franfranfranny

Saturday, 11 February 2012

Day 11 of LOVE

it was my birthday yesterday and guess who's the first to text me? Rachelle! missing her cause we didn't get to spend much time during CNY as she went back to Tawau. we only manage to watch a movie together and went for night market. at least better than nothing =)

I was actually hoping for some or at least one phone call from friends to wish me. nowadays with the ease of social network, sms and phone calls seems to be diminishing. oh well, I guess not everyone are like me that love phone calls and something more personal.

anyway, back to topic. I did received lots of birthday wishes through facebook though. thanks to the birthday reminder, otherwise I dont think there will me that many people wishing me. 

went for class in the morning and the group mate sang birthday song to me during Business Maths class. then the lecturer asked me to stand in front to say something about myself. I was like "omg, this is so damn awkward. what do I need to say? I have nothing to say." and then one of them suggested me to write my Chinese name cause our lecturer come from Tehran which he knows nothing about Mandarin. end up I told them the history of how I got my name.

class ends at 5pm yesterday and when I reached home it was already 6pm+, I was all worn out. so tired due to kitchen class. rest a bit and get ready for birthday dinner with Ketty and Kelly. we went for Korean bbq as I was craving for it. they gave me a mini surprise after the meal with a birthday cake. I am really happy for the cake cause I was hoping for one. thanks to the girls, I had a great night with food and fellowship.

though it was birthday, but I told the girls in advance that I'll pay for the meal. it's not that I'm wealthy or what, but I just wanna bless them.

start love today by being kind and thankful to your friends :D

sesame cake from RT Pastry


yours sincerely, franfranfranny